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نوشته اصلی توسط bigbang (پست 292380) "our education and the job possibilities are such a mismatch" wonderful phrase ! superbly matched with my idea i can,t think about a better phrase than this , simply and meaningfully and you are not bookworm you are a girl , a what i mean by this is that you don,t have to go to soldiership but i do ,and because i don,t have Exemption or end of service no places will hire me and i can,t work for a long time , beside i should have job experince if i want to register a company i have the same problem too

Sweet of you to understand Daee Mammad
!It's a pickle
You're right! I'd forgotten about your military service problem
You seem to be the kind of guy who can get what they want once they set their mind on it
So I honestly hope you can manage to get out of here and live the life you want and deserve
Us: the younger generation in Iran are really hardworking educated people but seriously taken for granted
So I hope you get what you want
Just don't give up, I seriously believe in you

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نوشته اصلی توسط Islander (پست 292383) Yes miss.Saba , been a long time, and this is sad for me I’m fine. As I said I will graduate by September and got no plan for after it. My sister is working on her thesis and also teaching in Kish institute and still kind of busy, we don’t have chance to see each other for month every time and it’s cruel How about you? How is it going

Good luck about your graduation
I've still got a long way to go
I can't imagine what it would be like to have a sister, but it must be tough to be away from each other for that long
Wish you both the best Dear

you know so long i ask the same question to my self
dream , dreaming
i myself have a dream too , yeah i have it too ,but we live in the world that result of any action is not just depend on us , we are all connected in the way that we have no idea ! see when you decide to do some thing half of it depend on you , depend on how much you want it , and the other half is depended on the other
but some times you can ignore these others and do what ever you want but after doing this you will recognize that actually you gain something but you lose something too ! you lose the others !actually our dreams are maded by the others and you have no idea what am i saying ! in my dream i am an engineer that have a car company , and produce the best engine motors in the world
infact in my dream i desire my self as a hero and everybody cheering me
not in the way that cheering world leaders , no if i want to say it exactly i desire that engineers cheering me specially mechanical engineers
have a car brand and a heavy engine brand that is unique in the world
nowdays with this engineers that we have in iran and Investors
it is not possible , but what if its happen ? how do i feel
but in mainframe i like to be a gear move a system to its purpose
move the world being productive ..... in your past posts you always mentioned about your dreams at least say one of them
i will appreciate if you say ?

Hi Daee Mammd
That dream of yours actually seems quiet practical
It's quiet realistic
Good for you! and you know what : a. I did get what you meant where you said you'd have to lose something to make something else happen
and b. go get what you want
You're a guy, you military sevice or whatever, I get that, it takes time but in the end it's possible and you do have much more control over your life than a girl can have

My dreams on the other hand, are not that practical
I mean It says in my degree that I am an engineer and i love that, but when it becomes about dream the most practical (!) one i can think of is becoming a best seller author
I would love that
And not by writing a book in Farsi, cause a. people aren't really interested in reading here, and b. it takes imagination and a bit of deep truth and I'm scared of being figured out easily
So to be vague enough, I would have to go through complications much stronger than me
That's why I'm probably not good at dreaming
I want something that stays after I'm gone, I want to be remembered and i heard somewhere that if you wanna be remembered either write something that stays, or do something for people to write about it
So back to square one: I either shouldn't dream or dream and know they're not gonna happen

Hope it's not too weird or complicated

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do something for people to write about it

believe me they will forget specially iranian people , in this issue we are (iranian people ) talented we easily forget everything
don,t count on anyone for me i just count on god
thats it count on him , if you count on people they will laugh at u , mocking you ,and betray you in the way that animals don,t do that
I'm scared of being figured out easily

of course you are ! you are a girl and sensitive you do care what people think about you , but i don,t care maybe in the past it was important for me but now , i don,t care i let them thinking and imagine what ever they want about me i am a bad guy or a monster , or stupid or smart handsome or ugly actually

miss saba leave it ! let it go
live ! live ! do you understand what i am saying , if you always care what people think about you , you chain your self , they will think they will talking about you weather you like or not ! let these people do whatever they want
go out you will find piece in nature ,not in city in nature ,go to a jungle or ... try not to use your imagination for your dreams ,yes i am realistic i am agree with you because reality is beautiful , reality is not what you think it just take time
read quran not for savab ! read the meant of it ,it,s wrote for you , it,s not novel but only just only for one time read it from the first page to the last page )i suggest you
گلی از بوستان خدا
it is written by seyed mahdi hojati , god bless him , its a great book
world is beautiful and still there are some people and there are some places that makes you feel better, of course we all have same problems i mean our generation but it will be oooooooookay
trust me

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نوشته اصلی توسط bigbang (پست 292536) of course you are ! you are a girl and sensitive you do care what people think about you , but i don,t care maybe in the past it was important for me but now , i don,t care i let them thinking and imagine what ever they want about me i am a bad guy or a monster , or stupid or smart handsome or ugly actually

!Daee Mammad you misunderstood me
You haven't met me in person, if you had you'd know I'm not that kinda person
I'm actually kinda weird in my own way and I love that
I seriously couldn't care less about what people think of me
The only people whose opinion matter to me (besides God) are people like my family who are close to me and mean the world to me
Other than that I seriously don't care

What I meant by not wanting to be figured out, is that I like mysteries
(Manish in mishe ke az ramz0 raz dashtan khosham miad, doos nadaram mardom rahat sar az karam darbiaran) which is why I think writing stuff in English will add a funny twist to the whole thing

And About not using my imagination for my dreams: That's not even possible
I enjoy chaos and rebellion when it comes to making stuff up, I love breaking the rules in my mind
I like exploring stuff in my mind that are just simply impossible for me to explore in real life

hope I've made my self clear this time

First of all Hi dear Ali and welcome
make yourself at home any time you are here
!And second of all, we all are scared buddy
I mean I don't know if history has ever faced a more confused generation
As it says in my signature, "we are realizing now more than ever that we are never gonne be who we wanted to be, who we thought we would be someday"
But to me dreaming about a good future, no matter how fat out of reach it may feel, is never off the table; at least not me
Share your thoughts and feats with us here
Not a lot of people read what is said here, so it's kinda confidential,I mean it's safe to share stuff here
People are only as interesting as their mind and heart goes
The beauty stashed in one's mind, is not measured only by what they achieve, but by what they believe, what they dream of and what they care about

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نوشته اصلی توسط Saba_Baran90 (پست 292514) I really don't know which one is worse : To not have any dreams, or to have them and know for a fact that you are never gonne get them !It's a "NO" either way

But I think first one is not that bad. Because It's a long time that I didn't have those kind of dreams. yes, It's been years that I stopped fantasying about future . I rarely imagine what will happen in even next year. I just think being pleased in this very moment is good, of course I am kind of hard to please, my sister always tells me. But those even rare moments are precious to me, and that's all

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نوشته اصلی توسط علی رشیدی (پست 292561) first thx for this great topic idont know why i came here and why im writing...but some times i cant endure many things....from my selt to every thing. maybe u have faced to this problem that u dont know what are u gonna do in the feauture ... this makes u more angry.... u dont have any plan in ur mind ...when i face to this condition i just go .... go go out of every thing ... i'm trying to forget every thing...i'm skeard ... skeard of my self... of my mind ... i;m skeard to face with s.that i want to do... if i have too mistakes in my writing excuse me... :53:

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نوشته اصلی توسط علی رشیدی (پست 292561)

Welcome Dear Mr.Rashidi
It's really nice having you here
talking about what we cannot endure, make us feel better, so feel free
You know, It's a common problem that most of us have no idea about future and what we are going to do and what will happen. All we can do is to be hopeful and try to do our best about every thing. so Do Not worry and keep going
wish you luck

hi everyone i got to say i understood better by your post thank you
mr.rashidi are you a student ? cause the question you asked sounds familiar , believe me or not this is the question that hundred or thousand or millions of student ask them self ! what i am going to do ? specially boys
if you are accept with me ,universities in iran don,t have any answer for this question , they can,t find a better job than teaching what they learned ! so if your student and are worried about your job i should say to you don,t worry just learn what ever you should learn , and get your degree
don,t think just take it
if you are student say to me about your field
i have your answer that what are you going to do specially in iran !

let me say to you mr.rashidi if you will smart enough you can have a great job in future , in iran you should have one these license pmp or cisco,s license
search

Iran Technical & Vocational Training Organization(fani o herfeii)s

site this is very important
choose one of their field or courses that is useful for u , your degree is not the important part in your resume , if you go to places like that you can find work connections u now what i mean ? cause when a person that can teach you the hole network from the software to the hardware with for example for 2 million tomans be sure that he has another job too ! watch and learn in these places and try to work for free at least for 6 month if you show your skills they will interduce to the persons that they know but first you should show your Commitment for your job , increase your skills , and have face with people who works in iran
for university you can be graduated with 14
forget about university they are bunch of sick people that is stocked in a loop round that they call it learning ! but they don,t have any suggestion for your job
and you should take their papers and tranlate it for 4 or 5 mark that maybe at last of your semester it will help you
this is them i suggest you to take your license but do not pay attention to it too much ! cause if you are graduated from mit your main issue is to find a job in iran
if you know a person that can suggest you to a company meet with him ask him what should you do it ! wether you don,t like cause a time comes that you have to do more than usual for a job that is not related to ur field
i am an engineer you are an engineer this will be an owner for us to find a job in our field
and do not forget to depend on god
inshaallah you will find a job and we will see you happy and Satisfied

welcome dear Ali :53: i am glad to see a new active member such as you :) enjoy being here :)
this is a place where you can talk about anything that you want and as we write in English

my good friends..

چن وقته نبودم؟ چیا گفتین؟ قول میدم بخونمشون! (this is called: creativity of my mind :d)

i need help

my heart is full of words, full of words that i can't tell anybody

i have to talk to some one but don't know who..

i have forgot about my friends or my family because they know me and the worst thing about them is: they judge me... what i really hate.

i have thought about the unknown NGOs .. there are some groups in cities that people join them, talk to each other and they still stay unknown... i really need an unknown friend to talk... i need some one just to listen to me! just listen!!!! don't judge me, don't punish me! ooooofffff.......... but i'm afraid.. cause Kermanshah is a small city and there may be people who know each other and .... me :(

well, forget about that!

i didn't try a bit! for the MA examination this year but i have decided to study hard for the next one. you are going to see me in a Bigger City! bye bye! :d

Oh! My Sweet friend, Mehregan! Missed you so much

My dear, I completely understand what you are talking about
I think writing down some of your thoughts on paper is a good idea, something like a diary that no one reads but you
you know, I do it myself and it feels good, I imagine that green notebook of mine is a good friend and I can tell it what ever I like
And I believe some words and toughs that we got inside are too worthy to share and then be judged , we better keep it , So Just take it easy dear and every thing will be alright

Good luck with leaving the city

how cool is using IranNastaliq :p Only for you Anahita :d i like your signature

:Catch Me If You Ca:

two qsts! have you ever felt a small bit on your hands while you are using your laptop? recently, i've been bitten so many times by this bad feature of electricity, i'll die, won't i? oh i know finally these corners of keyboard will kill me

:باوکه رو:

another thing is that, where are you guys?! it looks like that no body is on trip and we all have stayed home to serve our guests, isn't that so?

im not in the mood of Eid or a new year i just think that we are in vacation for example .. supose that we don't go to the university for 2 weeks.. just it!

is it the aftermath of getting older? i don't know ..

i wish i could go abroad ....

let's see!! there are just benefits of going abroad! there you can breath the fresh air! you can dance and do any sports that you like! :لوطی قژناک:splum-fairy-smiley::dancegirl3::hippie6::yattasmiley[1]::پلکه شورر: ooooo how good it could be!? the only reason that doen't let me go is missing my family! believe me!

this is me these days:

:che_bedane:

any way, did you know the interesting facts about 1393?! it started on Friday and will be ended on Friday, too, so it is sth that all of us know: "beinotatilein!" We Aer All Off In This New Year

:21:

talk to me ! somebody speak to me!

miss mehregan its weird about your laptop , tell me about your laptop model what is it ? just don,t say it,s dell
fellers i did have an accident just 20 minutes ago
happy new year :d its like baaaaaaammmmmmm ! but the damage rate is not impressive it can be ignored, yeah its my dady,s car
and pray for me :63:

Oh God what has happened to you Mohammad?

we will pray for you, are all right? how was your accident? i hope it wasn't serious ..

actually i have a Dell! inspiron N5010! ofcourse this problem occures mostely whenever i connect my laptop to LCD by using an HDMI cable... anyway, that really bothers me..

don,t worry for me actually my accident is a little bit Spoiled it,s like don,t ask don,t tell

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i have a Dell! inspiron N5010

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooo :باوکه رو: well all dell models have same problems and it is it,s board
i mean mainboard it can cause shocking when you touch keyboard
i will answer in next post

you asked us what can you do about this shocking if you had tried before you did understand that this shocking affect happening when your laptop is plugged in and i think if you unplug the adapter this wouldn,t happen
but you can,t use your laptop by battery cause it,s annoying that you should always recharge your laptop and use it and beside that your battery can,t keep electricity well ( because of its age) so here is my solution
try to wear slippers i am not mocking you yeah it can stop it , your body is a contact between your laptop and earth you can cut this contact by wearing a Nonconductor material like slippers
but in general i suggest you to buy an original dell adapter , well if your adapter is original already ,try another adapter

thanks Mohammad

battery is not working at all..

thanks for your suggestion :)


once i was about to be shoked really, it was hard ..

hi Anahita :) welcome darlin :)

To be honest I think living in the top picture is a dream to a lot of people in the bottom picture
It seems like it's a luxury house that could belong to a celebrity
So I think I also would like that
But I also like the vibrant lifestyle of people who live in big cities

well long time no see
nobody coming here how are you everyone ? is every thing ok
well for me not too bad that i described before
talk , tell what had you experienced these month
i am working and learning and raise my knowledge
pretty busy now
well i can,t talk like before i don,t know why
and i don,t know what am i typing actually ! because i am falling in asleep:37::37:

Daee Mammad I gotta say I really admire your passion for "knowledge" and learning things
Hold on to it
I really haven't been feeling much the past month and just seems a bit sad
I feel really good on the rainy days though
I wish it pours down rain every day